Rollkür vs Bondage

Dear Andreas, Edward, and others adepts of SM abuses horse dressage,

Few years ago, when I began to look at freestyle videos on YouTube, I found you guyz (and girls) were wonderful riders and was like "one day, in my dreams..." Now, I am just desgusted and I hope NEVER be like you. I prefer to stay a modest rider,  with failures, but a true rider, with true love of horses (mine and others, all otthers) than an an egoist bitch without respect for my partner. 

Yeah, now maybe you understand the title of this article ? No ? OK, I explain the relation. You'll see, it's very simple. Your horse are your partner. You both are a couple. In our society, a couple relationship is based of love (or at least friendship), respect and trust. 

I remember, forgive me this little digression, some words of Nuno Oliveira : Consider the horse as a friend, not a slave, and see what wonderful partner he makes. Well, the terms are maybe not exact, but you have the general intention. 

Affection, respect and trust. That's the basics. Now, imagine a couple willing improve their sexual life. Maybe both want to test new things. Maybe one of them as sadistic or masochists tendances, wants to try bondage, etc. If his or her partner agree, that's beautiful. Together, they decide to explore new things. With suffering - if BOTH OF THEM are all right with this. 

If not, and if one of  the partners insists, psychologically (as Christian Grey, yeah... and he's a bastard) or physically or both, that's is an abuse. A torture. A rape.

A CRIME.

Because no normal human would torture  his or her partner without his or her consent. There are other means, sometimes, to find satisfaction. Other partners. Or sextoys. Yeah, sextoys can be just good.

Now consider, dear Andreas, Edward and others, what you are doing to your partners. Don't laught about my comparison, don't be scandalized - or be, I don't care. But please, think about this, about what you're doing with your horses. 

Rollkür and his little friends : physical abuse - and yes, it sounds like bondage, doesn' it ?

Psychological abuse : to torture someone, to break his or her will, and never let him or her a chance to protest, to say "no" our "please", that's torture. 

For my books, and because I'm interested in human psyche, I've read many essays about violence and need of might. Sorry guyz, but you're exactly in the same processes as the "abusers", you know, those criminals who think that they have to destroy, to break others just to prove their existence. Ok, if you need exemples, try any Criminal Minds season, look at the movie Boxing Helena or... Grey (the sequel of the books...)

And of course, you'll protest : that's not the same thing, that competition, that's just... what... horses ? And no! There are no "just horses". They are alive, with a spirit, an heart, a will...
They are your partners. They earn your love, your respect.

So, if you are not capable to contain your will of might, if you absolutely want to trick and to use this bondage and torture instruments, and are shoked when I call you criminals... try sextoys bicycles! (or begin a psychotherapy...)

Petition against rollkür : http://no-rollkur.com/ 
Edward Gal eliminated thanks to the "blood rule" : here (in french)